Nā memo o ke aloha a me ke aloha

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• Pehea e hāʻawi ai i ka hōʻoluʻolu?
• Nā laʻana o nā leka o ke aloha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu

ʻO ka nā leka o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻo kēlā mau mea e hoʻouna mau ʻia i ka ʻohana, nā hoaaloha a i ʻole nā ​​hoahānau i ʻeha mau i ka make ʻana o kahi mea aloha.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka huaʻōlelo "condolences" mai kahi ʻano Spanish archaic i ka manaʻo maoli "kaumaha ma luna oʻu", ʻo ia hoʻi, ke kaumaha nei ka mea me ka ʻeha o haʻi, kaʻana like, manaʻo ʻia e like me kā lākou ponoʻī. ʻO kēia neʻe o ka solidarity kahi hopena a me ka pono kūpono, a ʻo ka ʻole o ia mea i unuhi ʻia ma ke ʻano he disaffection a i ʻole nele o ka lokahi.

Pehea e hāʻawi ai i ka hōʻoluʻolu?

ʻO nā ala maʻamau a maʻamau e hōʻike ai i kēia manaʻo ma o:

• Nā leka kākau lima a i ʻole nā ​​kāleka aloha.
• I ke kanaka, ke kipa ʻana i ka home o ka mea ʻaiʻē, a i ʻole ke ala a i ʻole ke kanu ʻana o ka mea i make. Hōʻike ka hope i kahi kekelē koʻikoʻi o ka pili loa.
• Kāhea kelepona.
• Ke waiho nei i kahi leka i nā puke kanu hoʻolewa.
• Ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma o ka Pūnaewele inā mamao aku a ʻaʻohe mea hou he alo he alo.

ʻOkoʻa ke ala o ka haʻi ʻana i nā hōʻoluʻolu e like me nā moʻomeheu a me nā haipule, akā ma ka ʻaneʻane o nā hihia āpau e mahalo nui ʻia ke kū kino.

ʻOiai nō nā leka o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoluʻolu he ʻāpana o nā formulate i loko o ka moʻomeheu e hana i ka make, a hele nā ​​wahi maʻamau i loko o ka ʻeha like, ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe o ka maikaʻi o ka mea i make, ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻana o nā waiwai haipule e pili ana i ka ʻuhane make ʻole a i ʻole, ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka haʻalele ʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻula no ke kōkua ʻana i ka ʻeha.

I kekahi mau hihia hiki ke hele pū me kahi ʻōlelo Baibala a palapala paha.

Nā laʻana o nā leka o ke aloha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu

Minamina i ka wahi hana

1. E ke hoa aloha, kaumaha nui loa mākou i ka nūhou o kāu nalo hou. Māhele mākou i kou ʻeha a hōʻike i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu i kēia manawa paʻakikī.
2. E ka hoapili: makemake mākou e hāʻawi i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu a me ka pilina iā ʻoe i kēia mau manawa paʻakikī āu e hele nei me nā lālā o kou ʻohana. Hilinaʻi mākou e hāʻawi ka manawa iā ʻoe i ka maluhia a me ka maluhia e pono ai e kū i kēia nalo ʻana ma ke ala kūpono maikaʻi loa.
3. E ke hoa aloha, ua hiki mai nei i kēia keʻena nā nūhou maikaʻi ʻole o ka hala ʻana o kou makuakāne. E ʻoluʻolu e ʻoluʻolu i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu a me ko mākou manaʻolana e halihali ʻoe i kēia pohō nui me ka haʻalele ʻana.
4. E ka mea hoʻoponopono: ma ka inoa o ka hui hana makemake mākou e hōʻike i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu no ka nalo āu i ʻeha ai. E loaʻa i ko mākou manaʻo hōʻoluʻolu.
5. E ka mea kūʻai mai: me ka minamina nui no ka launa ʻana aku iā ʻoe e hāʻawi aku i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu i ka make ʻana o kāu wahine. Lana ko mākou manaʻo e hāʻawi ana ka manawa iā ʻoe i nā ala e kū ai i kahi nalowale ʻole.
6. E ka mea hoʻopukapuka aloha: ke kaumaha nei mākou i ka nūhou o kou nalo ʻana a koi ʻia mākou e hele pū me ʻoe i kēia mau manawa o ke kaumaha. E ʻoluʻolu e ʻoluʻolu i kā mākou ʻōlelo hōʻoluʻolu.
7. ʻOhana: ua pīhoihoi ka poʻe nūhou o ka make ʻana o kou makuahine a ua kanikau mākou a pau e noʻonoʻo nei e hana pū me ʻoe. ʻO ia ke kumu a mākou e makemake ai e hoʻouna iā ʻoe i kahi aloha fraternal a me kahi ʻano e hōʻike ai i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu. Moe i ka maluhia.
8. Aloha Raquel: ʻO mākou o ka poʻe i leʻaleʻa a hanohano o ka hana pū ʻana me ʻoe ua hoʻoluliluli ʻia e ka nūhou o ka make ʻana o kāu kaikamahine. Ke ʻike nei ʻaʻole hiki i nā huaʻōlelo ke hoʻoponopono i ka ʻeha āu i ʻike ai a me kāu, e ʻae iā mākou e hōʻike i ko mākou aloha a me ko mākou kūpaʻa i kēia mau manawa paʻakikī.
9. Ua mahalo ʻia e Mr. Carlos: ua hiki mai ka nūhou no ka make nui o kou makuahine i kēia keʻena. Makemake mākou e hele pū me ʻoe i loko o ke kanikau āu e kanalua ʻole ai a hāʻawi i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe a me nā lālā o kou ʻohana. Maluna ona ke aloha.
10. Hoʻolālā Hoʻohanohano: ʻo mākou o nā ʻāpana o kāu hui noiʻi makemake e neʻe i ka nalowale weliweli a ʻolua a me kāu wahine e koi ai e hāpai. E loaʻa i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu a me ko mākou aloha āpau.

Minamina i ka mea kamaʻāina a ʻoluʻolu paha

1. E ka makamaka aloha: ʻaʻohe aʻu mau huaʻōlelo e wehewehe ai i ka ʻehaʻeha o ka make ʻana o kou kaikuahine iaʻu. Ke pule nei au i ke Akua e hōʻoluʻolu a haʻalele iā ʻoe a me kāu i kēia manawa pōpilikia. Hāʻawi aku au i kahi ʻūluna hoahānau iā ʻoe.
2. Aloha Milena: ʻo ka lono kaumaha o ka make ʻana o kou makuakāne ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi mamao loa e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ʻūlū e kūlike i kēia mau pilikia. Lana koʻu manaʻo ua ʻike ʻoe a ʻeha pū mākou pū me ʻoe a loaʻa mākou iā ʻoe a me kāu poʻe keiki i kēlā me kēia pō i kā mākou pule. Moe i ka maluhia.
3. E ka hoahānau aloha: Makemake wau e hōʻike i koʻu kaumaha no ka make ʻana o koʻu ʻanakē ʻo Cecilia, kahi hanana i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a ʻeha hoʻi i uhi ʻia i ko mākou ola no ka ʻohana āpau. He wahine ikaika a aloha ʻia kou makuahine, e noho mau loa i ko mākou mau hoʻomanaʻo. He ʻapo.
4. E kuʻu kaikamahine aloha, makemake wau e loaʻa i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hāʻawi aku iā ʻoe i ke kūlana ʻehaʻeha e like me ka nalo ʻana o kāu kāne. Minamina, ʻaʻole mākaukau loa mākou no kēia mau hanana a ʻaʻohe a mākou mea e ʻōlelo aku ai e hōʻoluʻolu i ka ʻeha. Makemake wau e haʻi iā ʻoe ʻo mākou pū me ʻoe a ʻeha pū ka ʻohana āpau iā ʻoe i kēia nūhou maikaʻi ʻole. Aloha mākou iā ʻoe a hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi iā mākou.
5. E kuʻu ipo aloha: ʻOi aku koʻu minamina ma mua o ka hiki iaʻu ke haʻi aku iā ʻoe i ka haʻalele ʻana o kou kaikunāne, ka hoa aloha a hoa hele o nā huakaʻi. Ke pule nei au i ke Akua e hāʻawi mai ʻo ia iā mākou i ka ikaika āpau e noho me ka ʻole o kāna hui a haʻalele iā ia. Aloha kuʻu mau minamina i kēia mau hola kanikau.
6. Aloha Cristina: hoʻokahi wale nō lālani e hōʻike ai i koʻu minamina no ka make ʻana o Juana, nā nūhou e kaumaha ana iaʻu mai ka manawa aʻu i lohe ai mai ka nūpepa. E loaʻa iaʻu a mai iā Julián kahi ʻūlū nui e kūʻē i kona haʻalele ʻana me ka haʻalele.
7. E ke keiki hoahānau, ua waiho leo ʻole ka nūhou no ka make ʻana o kou makuahine. He paʻakikī e noʻonoʻo i ka honua me ka ʻole o kāna leʻaleʻa maikaʻi a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho. Loaʻa i kahi ʻapo mai kou ʻohana aloha iā ʻoe a hele pū me ʻoe.
8. Marta: Aia i nā manawa e like me kēia, o ka lilo loa, e noho ai nā hoaaloha ma laila no mākou. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i ka ʻeha āu e ʻike ai no ka lilo ʻana o kāu kaikamahine, akā makemake wau e ʻike ʻoe ʻo mākou pū kekahi me ʻoe. Na ko mākou aloha a me kā mākou hui e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi hōʻoluʻolu iki i mua o kēia nūhou kaumaha.
9. E ka hoahānau aloha, ua aʻo mākou ma ka home i ka make koke ʻana o kou kaikuahine a makemake mākou e hoʻolōʻihi i ko mākou aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka nalowale āu e hele nei, akā minamina nā mea āpau a kāu poʻe mea aloha e hāʻawi aku ai iā ʻoe i kēia manawa. ʻO ka hilinaʻi a me ka haʻalele ʻana, e ka hoahānau. I ka hopena e loaʻa iā ia ke koena āna e pono ai.
10. Aloha Gabriela: Lana koʻu manaʻo i kēia mau laina e hoʻomaha iki ai ʻoe, ma hope o ka ʻehaʻeha loa o ka hele ʻana o kou makuahine. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻiʻini i nā mea ʻoi aku ma mua o ka poʻe o mākou i ʻike i ka pili pili e hoʻohui iā lākou. Loaʻa i kahi ʻapo a me kuʻu aloha āpau.